At a time when Britain is negotiating its exit from the EU, it is fascinating that two publishers, Penguin and Piatkus have published books on parenting in Denmark and The Netherlands.
The Danish Way of Parenting by Jessica Joelle Alexander and Iben Dissing Sandahl (Piatkus)
This is a practical guide that reveals the six essential principles that have been working for parents in Denmark for decades:
Play: essential for development and well-being
Authenticity: fosters trust and an "inner compass"
Reframing: helps kids cope with setbacks and look on the bright side
Empathy: allows us to act with kindness towards others
No ultimatums: no power struggles or resentment
Togetherness: a way to celebrate family time, on special occasions and every day
I like the way this book is set out. It is easy to read and perfect for dipping into or consulting as and when the need arises.
PWT rating: ♥♥♥♥♥
The Happiest Kids in the World Bringing up Children the Dutch Way by Rina Mae Acosta and Michele Hutchinson (Penguin)
This book has a narrative style that encourages you to read through from start to finish, and I'd suggest you probably mark or highlight the parts which you find more pertinent to your own family for easy reference.
What resonates for me (and which I covered in Parenting Without Tears: Guide To Loving Discipline
This is the Australian-devised evidence-based parenting programme endorsed by the World Health Organisation and widely promoted by the Dutch government.
The Triple "P" has five basic principles:
1. Create a safe and engaging environment
2. Create a positive learning environment
3. Use assertive discipline
4. Have realistic expectations
5. Take care of yourself as a parent
This book is based on many personal experiences of the authors to illustrate their their points which means you have to invest more reading time.
PWT rating: ♥♥♥♥♥
The Happiest Kids in the World: Bringing up Children the Dutch Way
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