Below he gives five tips for parents, teachers and child-carers to help reduce stress, anxiety and depression in children:
- Help children to understand that the more time they spend thinking about the negative aspects of their lives then the more likely they are to feel stressed, anxious and depressed.
- Encourage children to have more positive thoughts about themselves, their lives and their families rather than focusing on what’s not going well.
- Celebrate their uniqueness – every child has talents and strengths - they may not be great at academic subjects at school but they might have a real talent for singing or a genuine interest in buying and selling things on the internet.
- Help children to challenge the thinking errors that make them think negatively for example when a child says “I’m no good at anything” or “Everyone has it better than me” gently challenge this perception to help them think more positively.
- Create memories of positive events – help children celebrate positive things at the time they are enjoying themselves… then try to groove this in by regularly repeating these positive events.
The Promised Land for Children: How to Improve Children's Confidence and Raise Their Self-esteem