
There are many reasons for children experimenting with drugs and parents shouldn’t automatically blame themselves or panic and be too angry with the offender.
Kids may take drugs because:
- they enjoy the thrill of experimenting;
- drugs are available or their friends use them;
- they’re bored;
- they're feeling sad or unhappy;
- they have mental health issues;
- they are making a show of independence.
For many children drug use will be a phase of growing up, while for others drug-taking will be the norm.
Signs to look for
Unfortunately many signs of drug-taking could easily be attributed to normal adolescent behaviour:
- Mood swings from happy and alert to moody and sullen or showing signs of depression.
- Unusual aggressiveness or irritability.
- Changes in appetite: weight loss is often associated with amphetamines while heavy cannabis use may lead to an increase in eating sweet things.
- A marked lack of interest in hobbies, school, sport or friends.
- Changes in sleeping patterns: bouts of drowsiness or child is wide awake and alert and then sleeps for a day.
- Increased furtive behaviour or incidence of telling lies.
- Unexplained loss of money or belongings from the home.
The few physical signs to watch out for are:
- Unusual smells, stains or marks on the body or clothing or around the house.
- First time cannabis users may become very white and nauseous.
- With cannabis use pupils become very large while heroin or opiate users’ pupils become pinpoints.
- Cannabis users may have red or bloodshot eyes.
Where to get help, support and information
- Talk to Frank (The National Drugs Helpline) 0800 77 66 00 gives free advice about drugs and how to talk to your children about drugs plus confidential counselling 24 hours a day every day. Also excellent information for young people on website.
- ADFAM National 020 7928 8923 is a charity which runs a helpline for families of drug users offering confidential advice and support.
- Families Anonymous 0845 1200 660is a self-help group for parents of drug users with branches in various parts of the country.
- Release Drugs in School Helpline 0808 8000 800 offers advice, information and support for parents concerned about an incident at school - 10.00am to 5.00pm Monday to Friday.